What Will Make Your Heart Sing?

This was plastered all over a website announcing a huge, nationwide initiative.  How would you answer the question?

What does make your heart sing?  Some people may respond:

“To win the lottery!”  Or, “go on a dream vacation.”optical amplifier

 The more I think about the question, I am concluding that our hearts are always singing something:

*excitement

*anticipation

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*disappointment

*awe

*resentment

*fear

*regret

*joy

And the list goes on.  Just take a moment to think about:

What are you singing- today?  This hour?

The people in your life, what do you perceive they are “singing?”

 
Maybe additional questions to ponder are:

Do I like the song my heart sings?  If not, what would I be willing to change in my “tune”?

 Warmly,

Jan Hinton

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Once you have developed a SMART plan add a healthy dose of accountability.  Accountability means to be answerable.  In what ways will you be answerable?  What benchmarks can you add to the SMART plan that will help you stay the course?  Who will truly partner with you, with healthy care and concern, to hold you accountable?  Accountability is the ingredient for continued focus when the plan doesn’t work as you thought.  And of equal importance, accountability is a catalyst for celebration in reaching the milestones!

 Making new year resolutions last past January 1^st requires being intentional.  By following these three steps you get to design a unique plan and create a deliberate way for it to happen – that best fits you.  There is margin and forethought given to potential obstacles that can derail the process and celebration of the accomplishments.  By using this process you move past that defeated “why bother, I never keep them” attitude.  With this proven process, resolutions can happen all year round – in your life, business, and career – not only December 31^st!

Warmly,

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching

Once we throw the gauntlet in the sand and commit to do something about our resolution, we are gripped with the fear of “how”?  This is where the rubber meets the road.  The plan needs to be worked out beforehand for the accomplishment of the resolution.  This requires work on your part!  Beware of anyone offering you the “5 Easy Steps” at this point.  Your plan is dependent upon you – where you are in life; what your home, family, and work environments are like; what motivates you; what you can anticipate as obstacles; influence of past accomplishments; how far you are willing to go past your comfort zone; etc.  A plan that follows the SMART format (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Timely) is invaluable to making the resolution real.

Warmly,

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching

The wave of sentimentality rolled over you December 31^st.  You reflected upon the passing of another year, the highs and lows, gains and losses.  There is a tugging deep within your heart – “I do want this next year to be the year that I _______” and then you fill in the blank with your list.  And really, you do want it to be the year that it happens.  Then it’s January 1^st, then the 2^nd, and 3^rd – and nothing has changed.  Yet we truly wanted it to change!

 We live in such a paradox – we long for “things” to be different, yet we find ourselves staying close to our comfort zone and near our safety nets.  How do we make the resolutions reality?

 Step 1  Dare to Commit

When we make a resolution, we are resolving to do something, with a firm determination.  Many times our list is the outcome: lose 10 pounds, balance home and work, conquer procrastination, eliminate debt, become organized, etc.  And that’s as far as it goes.  What we omit is the commitment to actually do it.  We resolve that we want something different in our lives, yet we omit a commitment to actually do it.  The saying, “the main thing is to make the main thing the main thing” is true at this point.  By daring to commit, you are saying that you will resolve to make this outcome the main thing – and there is determination to make it a reality.

Warmly,

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching

This quote, by Ellen Goodman, is a great self assessment.  What is the potential you see for 2008?

 “We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched.  Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives… not looking for flaws, but for potential.”   ~Ellen Goodman

 Warmly,

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching

Join us for introductory teleclasses (conference call with a whole lot of content!) to 2 of the most popular programs offered by Stone Soup Coaching!  During each teleclass we will discuss the program and reveal insider secrets!  You’ll have the opportunity to ask questions, discover more of the content, and walk away with a few surprises, just for being on the call!

 The call is free (you incur any long distance phone charges).  You must register to attend by sending an email to jan@stonesoupcoaching.com.  Invite a friend to join you!

 Here is the detail of each teleclass:

 Tuesday, December 11, 2007 @ 9:30 a.m. EST

 Goals for Resolution Breakers: A Breakthrough Formula for Keeping New Year Resolutions Past New Years

 Kevin Welch stated, “There’ll be two dates on your tombstone and all your friends will read ‘em, but all that’s going to matter is that little dash between ‘em.”

This new year will be one portion of that dash.  What changes could you make in this year that will impact the remainder of the dash?  What one change could you make this year that would add momentum to make other changes?

 Discover how to turn un-kept resolutions into attainable, action goals!

 
Thursday, December 13, 2007 @ 2:30 p.m. EST

 Business Gym Basics

 How do you build a business that works predictably, effortlessly, and profitably each and every day?  How do you build a business that works without you?  How do you work on the business and not in the business?

 This teleclass is designed for anyone who is in a business runs that them and for those who want to start (and jumpstart) their own ventures.  Finding and adjusting the focus of your business to produce the results you want is the theme of the Business Gym Basics.  As in any workout, there are essential elements (warm-up, aerobic activity, strength training and cool down) so it is with your business.  During the Business Gym, we discuss key fundamentals of any business: purpose, planning, marketing, and growth.

 
Don’t miss this opportunity for fast-paced, practical tips you can use!

Each teleclass is FREE, and to attend you must register by sending an email to jan@stonesoupcoaching.com.  We’ll send you all the details you need to actively participate in the call!

I hope you will join us on the calls!

Warmly,

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching 

Many people I encounter want me to help them save, find or maximize their time. Over my career, I have changed my strategies and suggestions to focus on more of what matters to the individual, to the business owner. Listed below are questions that need to be answered first, before you’ll ever have enough time. How would you answer?

· In what ways do live each day as an unfolding drama, in anticipation –  or are you going through the motions of living without really connecting?

· In what ways are you internally driven? Externally driven?

· In what ways do your circumstances dictate the flow of your life?

Time will march on, another season will quickly pass. Will you receive it – your life, your uniqueness and make your imprint – or will you focus on managing what only can be received? Maybe that is when you do get it all done.

Receiving my life

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching

But wait, where was Thanksgiving? Where was the thankfulness that is suppose to last longer than one day? I received an email talking about our need for an attitude of gratitude. I agree, it needs to be longer than one day, yet for middle America, with all that we have, continual thankfulness can be challenging. I have food, clothes, heat, health, a dependable car, etc. I think I become numb or forget and thankfulness isn’t at my core. In some ways, maybe I expect the very things I am thankful for. I have challenged myself to express more gratitude, BUT how? I can say I am going to do it, think and say 10 things each day that I am thankful for, but that isn’t really changing the core of me into a more thankful person. I have created my own challenge (not surprising since I am easily motivated by a challenge!). I want to express more gratitude by GIVING. Giving without expecting to get. Here are some ways I want to give:

• Give a helping hand to my neighbor in the care of their elderly mother
• Give permission for more laughter and fun
• Give insights to friends thereby using my gifts of wisdom and discernment
• Give more of my heart, not only my hands
• Give more evidence of my changed life
• Give away more and make do with less
• Give more . . .

Instead of an attitude of gratitude, I will be working toward an action of giving.

Warmly,

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching

Smith speaks of 10 leadership taboos.  Here are mine for the moment – fallacies from my perspective, yet what I see playing out often in the business world.  I plan to keep a running list, so who knows where it will stop . . .

 Taboo 1 – There is one best way to do leadership.  There tends to be an incredible urgency to find the guru/author/consultant/business leader that has done leadership “right” (whatever right is).

 Taboo 2 - Leadership is something you do – something you can master or at least learn the “basics”.  It can fit nicely on a to-do list and be checked off – I did leadership today.

Taboo 3 – If Business X and Leader Y are “successful” then I can copy and implement everything they are doing and be equally as successful.

Taboo 4 - Leaders can’t be authentic.  In fact, true authenticity may be a core quality to great leadership. 

 Taboo 5 – If I can just learn leadership skills and use them in my calling, then everything will go smoothly.  My belief is that anything that involves people is and will always be messy.

 Which Taboo is a part of your mental tape or unspoken beliefs?

 Taboo buster,

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching

 The topics include:

            November 5, 12:00 noon – Bah, Humbug!  What holiday spirit?

            November 12, 12:00 noon – Give yourself the best gift

            November 19, *11:00 a.m. EST* – Holiday “Tunes” for perspective

            November 26, 12:00 noon – I survived Thanksgiving, bring on Christmas!

 
Key secrets designed to make the holidays more enjoyable than ever!                              

The teleclass is absolutely free (really!).  However, space is limited, so please reply to this email: jan@stonesoupcoaching.com and I’ll send you all the details! The deadline to register is Friday, November 2.

Yours in Holiday Fun!

Jan Hinton

Stone Soup Coaching